Parametric a me metric econometrics o ka infidelity i ka moekolohe
Pono e hoʻokaʻawale i nā loina helu a pau e pili ana i ka moekolohe.
Aia ka palena haiki loa o ka pono kahi (koe na hihia ko'iko'i o ka pili kino loa me ka haawi ole i na kumu no ka hilinai nui ana i ke kala a me ka manao) hiki ke hoaponoia ke kumakaia koe wale no ma na olelo patrimonial, pili ka pilina i ka noho mau ana o ka pilikia, ina ma ka pilina, ka pilina, ka male a ma waena paha o na mea aloha.
Me ka ʻokoʻa o kēia mau hihia, pono ka nānā ʻana i ka noʻonoʻo o ka pilina ma waho a i ʻole ma waho o nā ʻōlelo kūpaʻa.
ʻO ka mea nāna e hoʻokumu i kahi kāne, aia i ka palena kiʻekiʻe o ka ʻoluʻolu, kūpono a me nā pōmaikaʻi like ʻole e hiki ke loaʻa ma muli o nā mea i hoʻokumu ʻia ai ka male, ʻo ia hoʻi: loaʻa i kēlā me kēia kanaka ka hoa maikaʻi loa e hiki ke loaʻa ma muli o nā kūlana i hāʻawi ʻia e ka ʻoiaʻiʻo: kālā, makahiki, ʻoihana, pilikino e like me ke komo ʻana i kahi o ka noho ʻana, ke kaiāulu a me ka ʻāina āu i loaʻa ai i nā mea a pau āu e noho ai, ʻo ia ka waiwai i loaʻa iaʻu ma o ka waiwai āu i loaʻa ai iaʻu ʻo ia ka mea i kūpono iā ʻoe a me kāu kālā e kūʻai ai, ka mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokō.
ʻO nā mea a pau āu e pono ai, ʻo ia kāu i ke ola: ʻo kāu kumu hoʻohālike kaʻa a me kāu makahiki ka mea hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa; aia kou home ma kahi a me ka maʻamau i hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa; ʻO nā wahi āu e hele pinepine ai a me kou mau hoaaloha ma ka uku like a me ka pae kālā; ʻO ka mākeke i kapa ʻia e alakaʻi ʻia e ka lima ʻike ʻole ʻia o Adam Smith, nāna i hoʻoponopono i nā ʻano like ʻole āu i loaʻa ai a kūpono hoʻi i kāna kūlana waiwai paʻa a loli ʻole.
Pili kēia i kāu wahine a i kāu kāne paha, he uʻi a he uʻi ʻo ia e like me kona kūlana o ka nohona e hiki ai iā ia ke hana iā ia, no laila, ʻo ka hoʻomaloka wale nō e hiki mai me kekahi hoa ʻē aʻe o ka papa kaiapuni like, ʻo ia hoʻi ʻaʻole hiki ke loaʻa ka loaʻa ma ka pilina moekolohe.
ʻO kāu mau hoa hou a me ka wā e hiki mai ana e launa pū me kāu papa kaiaulu.
ʻO kēlā ʻōlelo, hiki ke ʻike ʻia nā ʻokoʻa liʻiliʻi i loko o kahi pilikia o ka moekolohe a i ʻole ka hoʻomaloka, e lilo ia i mea hōʻoluʻolu no ka poʻe i ʻike iā lākou iho i kumakaia, ʻaʻole loa i loaʻa a nalowale paha.
E like me ke koena, ka makahiki, ka pilikanaka, hoʻonaʻauao, 'oihana, lāhui, noho a me ka 'oihana hale e e like loa i waena o kanaka i loko o ka ia kaiapuni pōʻai, no laila, i ka mea kumakaia hoa hiki no hoi ke ae aku i ka mea, aole ia i oi aku ma kekahi ano e kona hoa pili aloha ma muli o ke kumakaia, e like me ka rula.
No laila he aha ka mea i koe i ka hoʻopunipuni kahi e hiki ai i ka hoa hoʻopunipuni ke koi i kahi pōmaikaʻi a ʻokoʻa paha koe wale nō ke ʻano a i ʻole kekahi akamai pilikino me nā talena noʻeau, a i ʻole ka pili pili i ka wahine a me ka naʻau?
ʻO ka mea ipo ke maopopo mau ke kumakaia ʻia ʻo ia no ka mea he mau kuleana male kāna hoa, ʻoiai i ka wā o ke kumakaia, no ka hōʻoluʻolu, ʻaʻole i manaʻo ka mea kumakaia i ka ʻeha like no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ʻike e kumakaia ʻia ʻo ia, no laila, ke hoʻomau nei kona aloha a me kona ola sentimental e like me ka mea maʻamau.
ʻO kou hoa hoʻopunipuni e noho māhele a pilikia, hopohopo a makaʻu, piha ʻole a hauʻoli ʻole.
No laila, ʻo ka hoʻololi ʻana o nā hoa pili pono e kaupaona i nā poho waiwai i hoʻololi ʻia no kekahi pono pilikino i ʻike ʻole ʻia i ka moekolohe e lanakila ai i nā traumas āpau o ka kaʻawale ʻana a me nā pilikia i hana ʻia i nā keiki, ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka moekolohe a i ʻole kahi ʻano aloha ʻē aʻe e lanakila i nā ʻano like ʻole o nā ʻano a me ka nui o kahi hoʻololi e pili wale ana, pilikino a pilikino.
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